Valentines Day for Her!

OK, listen up guys... You want to make her Valentines Day great? Well here's what you do. On your way home from work, hit the store. Pick up her favorite bubble bath, chocolates, flowers, candles, and beverage of her choice. Some sparkling champagne or tasty wine is classy for this type of Holiday. If you don't have good lotion or massage cream at home, get some. Go home and send your love on a short errand so she won't be home for about 20-30 minutes.

Once she leaves, start running her a bubble bath. Place the flowers in a vase and get out 2 champagne or wine glasses. Take a couple of the candles, glasses and the flowers into the bathroom. Place the flowers on the sink, or on the side of the tub. Depending on the size of the tub, you may be able to remove them from the vase and place them strategically around the tub. Do the same with the candles after you light them.

Next get the chocolates and pour them into a cute little bowl. Take them into the bedroom and place them on her night stand. If the bed hasn't been made yet, make it for her, then place 1-2 chocolates on her pillow. Get out her favorite sexy pj's or lingerie and head back to the bathroom. The bath should be finished at this point. Get her a towel and neatly fold her nightwear. Place them on the toilet seat, chair or somewhere she can easily reach them.

Get one of the flowers out of the vase and gently pull off the pedals. Spread the pedals lightly across the top of the bubble bath. The petals should sit on top of the bubbles without a problem. With the bath complete, candles lit, and flowers in place, turn off the lights and close the bathroom door. When she comes home from her errand, reveal your surprise.

Once she is comfortably in the bath, open the drink you chose for her and pour two glasses. Toast to her, your love, whatever you feel is appropriate. You should make it something special. It should be a toast to something you want her to know, particularly how you feel about her. Once the toast has been complete, ask her if she prefers to dine in or out. Then leave her for some time to relax and enjoy her surprise.

If she prefers to dine in, order some Chinese food or pizza. If she prefers to dine out, then go back to the bedroom and pick out her favorite outfit based on where your going to take her. After dinner, play some love games. This can be quite fun and break the everyday "romance" in the bedroom. The point is, you can make her feel pampered and special without spending a lot of money. Just be creative.

However if you do like buying gifts and have the extra cash then certainly do so. Some great gifts for her can include some new perfume, lotions, jewelry, or whatever she's into at the moment. I can guarantee whatever you choose she will be appreciative and enjoy the fact that you took the time to make her day special and show her how much you care.

Before you turn in for the night be sure to put that special lotion or massage cream to use. This can definitely relax her and help put her in "the mood", especially if you do it right. Another tip - If you have kids, find a babysitter for the night or let the kids spend the night with a friend. This can make or break how the evening may turn out. It's important for both of you to get a break once in a while, especially on this type of occasion.